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The sun doesn’t care…

Posted on: July 26th, 2019 by Lynika Write A Comment

You’re not here to play small


Be wise and adult enough to read past the (softened) cuss word to the point of this quote… 

You’re here to be you. 

You’re here to bring what you bring without a dimmer switch. 

Like I always say; people can buy shades and sit quietly in a back row if they can’t handle your brilliance. 

Don’t dim your light, volume, passion, knowing or purpose for anyone. 

If things get tough, be tougher…

If folk want to mould you into mild, walk away and rise and rise and rise. 

You’re not here to play small. 

Small does the world a disservice. 

Live in all your bones,

live out loud,

own your life. 

We need your light like we need the sun. 

You’re an essential part of life. 

Nobody is a nobody. 

YOU ARE someone. 

Someone who’s meant to be here. 

Someone who makes a difference. 

Someone who’s allowed. 

You are enough. 

I’m so glad you’re here. 

Forward we go,

Dr Lynika

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That stuff aint pretty…

Posted on: July 26th, 2019 by Lynika Write A Comment

That stuff ain’t pretty


Hush to the folks who house their minds in small rooms with no light. 

Those with dogged opinions and aggressive ideals… this is your cue to take a look at your own humanity and heart, instead of dishing out stale barbed wire, judgement bile.

That stuff ain’t pretty and it grows nobody, including you. 

For those impacted by the shrunken ones, let me assure you not to be dismayed or discouraged if your well intentioned efforts, support or beliefs are mocked or attacked. 

It’s that sadly familiar, repetitive, and often ‘learned’ behaviour for some folk to be negative and fearful in the face of someone else’s beliefs, victory or stance. 

Don’t waste time or energies looking at those throwing stones from glass houses.

Your purpose and passion is a much stronger force, and it’s moving in the right direction. 

Keep your eyes forward and your head high. 

And as John Lydgate said…

“You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.

Don’t divvy up your soul trying to please or appease all.

Keep on steering…

You were born to become YOU. 

Footwear, roles or people, if they hurt you they’re not your size. 

Live out loud. 

You have a right to be here and you matter. 

Forward we go,

Dr Lynika

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You can’t do it all but you can do something…

Posted on: July 26th, 2019 by Lynika Write A Comment

You CAN do something


Be a light for others.

It’s all good and well to post memes and quotes about right action and helping others less fortunate or capable…

But it’s another thing to take action and actually help.

No dollar is too small, only the one not given.

No kind word is useless except for the one not spoken.

No donation of clothing, socks or blankets goes unnoticed except for those shivering on the streets or in poverty without receiving them.

Anything you give matters to the one in desperate need of it.

Memes alone don’t keep people warm, they don’t protect children or donate on your behalf.

Please take the small amount of time it takes to ACT on the topics you talk and post about.

There are so many ways you CAN make a real difference, right now.

BE for others the hands you’d want most in your life if it were your time in need.

There is no separation, no “other people’s children” or “other people’s struggle”

You can’t do it all but you can do something.

Do that something now.

Together, giving what we can, where we can, we stand for all. 

Be your integrity not a meme of it.

Forward we go,

Dr Lynika

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